Secretless Sista

Dear Boyfriend,

I have some questions to ask you…… What are we doing? Do you love me? I think about you all the time, do you think about me? You are a priority in my life, am I one in yours? Does your family, friends, or co-workers know about me? Sometimes I feel like you are pulling… Read more »

Stress For What?!?!

God is amazing. I can not see my life without Him. There are times I reflect on everything that has happened in my life, whether it has been good or bad, God has ALWAYS made a way. Even when I don’t act right, He continues to allow me to come out of every situation victorious…. Read more »

I’m A Testimony!!!

Do you ever think why me? Why am I going through this? I have done everything right, I pray every day, go to church, read the bible, a law-abiding citizen, and overall a good person. I man don’t get me wrong I make mistakes, complain, can be negative at times, and sin. Yes, I’m a… Read more »

Why Torment Yourself?

It’s a good feeling after a painful breakup for the only man you saw a future with comes back in your life. You didn’t see it coming, you never thought you would talk or see him again. Deep down inside you’re happy, this is what you wanted. This is what you’ve been hoping would happen,… Read more »

You Deserve…..

You deserve to be with a man who loves you You deserve to be with a man who respects you You deserve to be with a man who is God fearing You deserve to be with a man who not only loves you, but is in love with you You deserve to be with a… Read more »

You Can’t Do It Alone

Its so easy to lose yourself when things start to fall apart. You feel like you’re the only person going through trials and tribulations while everyone around you is doing good. After a while you start to compare yourself to others and question God. How come I didn’t get that promotion and my co-worker who… Read more »

God Is Not Ignoring You

I used to think no matter how much I prayed, read the bible, or went to church God doesn’t hear my prayers. Why would He? I’m a sinner. I sin because I am selfish. Its all about my desires and happiness. I rather do what makes me feel good even if it disappoints God. I… Read more »

Know Your Worth

Sometimes I wonder why I allowed myself to be treated so badly by my ex-boyfriend. Why did I keep allowing him to take advantage of my kind heart? Why did I allow him to keep disrespecting me? Why did I keep forgiving & taking him back? Why do I still love him? Out of all… Read more »

Why Do I Keep Struggling With My Faith?

My fear is that when I die I’m going to hell. Its sad to say that but it’s the truth. After all these years of participating in numerous church events, conferences, going to church on Sundays and bible study on Wednesdays, and studying the word I still struggle with my faith. You would think at… Read more »

Why Do I Still Care?

Despite all the hurt and pain he caused me two years ago, I still would be willing to be there for him. Who am I talking about? My ex. We may have ended on a bad note but being angry, resentful, or hateful will not make the process of healing better. I was with him… Read more »