I Won’t Hurt You

Something told me not to do it. Not to get back with my ex. When he broke my heart the first time I made a promise to myself to never talk to him again. But I decided to give him a second chance. The minute I got that, “hey” text I should have just deleted… Read more »

It’s Hard Being A Child of God

Being a child of God is more than just going to church on Sundays. It’s a lifestyle. I used to think just going to church, saying I love God, praying, and occasionally reading the bible made me a “good” Christian. I was wrong. That is not enough. A few years back I noticed that I… Read more »

Why Do You Write These Articles?

I had a young woman ask me, “are all your articles going to be about male bashing”? Wow. All the articles that I have written so far, the only thing she got out of it was that I was supposedly “male bashing”. Not the pain I went through, the devastation I felt when my relationship… Read more »

Don’t Bring 2017 into 2018

Can the years stop going by so fast lol? The year 2017 came and went. I can’t believe it’s already 2018!!! I still need more time to accomplish my goals. Last year I told myself I was going to start over, 2017 was going to be my year. I made soooooo many promises. Here are… Read more »

I Regret Being With Him

Do you ever regret being in a relationship with someone? I know I do. Sometimes I look back at everything I went through and say why? Why did I put up with him for so long? I was so ready to end the relationship years ago. I would tell myself I can’t do this anymore…. Read more »

I’m Trying So Hard to Have Faith

Let me make this clear right now, this is not a post saying I no longer have faith or I lost my faith. I could write a book about this topic. I won’t share every detail because you would be reading this post forever lol, but I will share one year in particular where I… Read more »

He Made Me Like This

My breakup a couple of years ago took a major toll on me. It left me with a damaged self-esteem. Throughout the 5 years I was with him my self-esteem started to deteriorate. I never had low self-esteem until I met him. I had to look a certain way whenever I was with him. My… Read more »

Don’t you do it! Don’t you Stalk your Ex!

Don’t do it! Don’t you dare go on his Instagram, Facebook, or Snapchat!!! Don’t even create a fake page or account to snoop on his page either! You will regret it. I promise you will regret it. It will be the most painful, horrible, awful, dreadful, and horrendous (no I’m not exaggerating) thing you will… Read more »

But You’re a Church Girl

Yes, I’m a Christian. Sunday mornings and evenings I go to church, Wednesday nights I go to bible class, and I participate in every church event. I come from a Christian family. As you can tell by now I was born and raised in the church. Now with that being said does that mean I’m… Read more »

She Was Never My Friend

Every time I talked to her it was always drama. It was always a problem with something or somebody. Whether it be her relationship, kids, money, family, friends, or house it was something new every time we talked. She was sooooooooooooo negative which would make me negative. Talking to her most of the time was… Read more »

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  • I Want Her Boyfriend

    When I was in a relationship with my ex I would see pictures on social media of couples; the trips they would take, date nights, Netflix and chill and I would notice how affectionate they were towards each other. I would also have friends tell me how amazing their boyfriends were and the things they… Read more »

  • She Is So Negative

     Every time I would talk to someone no matter what the topic was about something negative always came out of my mouth and someone would always say, “ you’re so negative’. My worst enemy was my thoughts. As a child of God, I never understood why I was so negative, God has blessed me beyond… Read more »

  • Who Is Secretless Sista?

    Hello, my name is Jasmeen, the creator of Secretless Sista. So, you may be wondering why did I start this blog? And why am I a “Secretless Sista? Well I’m a Christian woman born and raised in southern California, and a church goer from birth. Church has always been an integral part of my life… Read more »