I Won’t Hurt You

Something told me not to do it. Not to get back with my ex. When he broke my heart the first time I made a promise to myself to never talk to him again. But I decided to give him a second chance. The minute I got that, “hey” text I should have just deleted… Read more »

It’s Hard Being A Child of God

Being a child of God is more than just going to church on Sundays. It’s a lifestyle. I used to think just going to church, saying I love God, praying, and occasionally reading the bible made me a “good” Christian. I was wrong. That is not enough. A few years back I noticed that I… Read more »

Why Do You Write These Articles?

I had a young woman ask me, “are all your articles going to be about male bashing”? Wow. All the articles that I have written so far, the only thing she got out of it was that I was supposedly “male bashing”. Not the pain I went through, the devastation I felt when my relationship… Read more »

Don’t Bring 2017 into 2018

Can the years stop going by so fast lol? The year 2017 came and went. I can’t believe it’s already 2018!!! I still need more time to accomplish my goals. Last year I told myself I was going to start over, 2017 was going to be my year. I made soooooo many promises. Here are… Read more »

I Regret Being With Him

Do you ever regret being in a relationship with someone? I know I do. Sometimes I look back at everything I went through and say why? Why did I put up with him for so long? I was so ready to end the relationship years ago. I would tell myself I can’t do this anymore…. Read more »

I’m Trying So Hard to Have Faith

Let me make this clear right now, this is not a post saying I no longer have faith or I lost my faith. I could write a book about this topic. I won’t share every detail because you would be reading this post forever lol, but I will share one year in particular where I… Read more »

He Made Me Like This

My breakup a couple of years ago took a major toll on me. It left me with a damaged self-esteem. Throughout the 5 years I was with him my self-esteem started to deteriorate. I never had low self-esteem until I met him. I had to look a certain way whenever I was with him. My… Read more »

Don’t you do it! Don’t you Stalk your Ex!

Don’t do it! Don’t you dare go on his Instagram, Facebook, or Snapchat!!! Don’t even create a fake page or account to snoop on his page either! You will regret it. I promise you will regret it. It will be the most painful, horrible, awful, dreadful, and horrendous (no I’m not exaggerating) thing you will… Read more »

But You’re a Church Girl

Yes, I’m a Christian. Sunday mornings and evenings I go to church, Wednesday nights I go to bible class, and I participate in every church event. I come from a Christian family. As you can tell by now I was born and raised in the church. Now with that being said does that mean I’m… Read more »

She Was Never My Friend

Every time I talked to her it was always drama. It was always a problem with something or somebody. Whether it be her relationship, kids, money, family, friends, or house it was something new every time we talked. She was sooooooooooooo negative which would make me negative. Talking to her most of the time was… Read more »

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  • Sometimes You Just Have To Cry

    Sometimes words just cannot express how you feel. When you’re sitting alone thinking about the years you spent with that man and for it to end like this, you can’t help but to burst out crying. You are crying like a baby. You could have never imagined heartbreak would hurt so much. I understand there… Read more »

  • Why Him?

    I always asked myself out of all the guys I ever dated and been with why him? Why was it so hard for me to move on from him? I had been in a few relationships with decent guys and even though it didn’t work out with them I was able to move on. My… Read more »

  • Comparing Your Life to Social Media

    “Comparison is the thief of joy”- Theodore Roosevelt This quote sums it all up. The danger and downside of comparing yourself to someone else can steal your joy and make you seem ungrateful for the life God has blessed with you. Comparison will have us devalue ourselves as inferior to someone’s else life which will… Read more »